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Sunday, April 4, 2010

Sundays in My City - Hills Afire

It's been an extremely hot dry season and we just haven't been seeing the rains we're accustomed to. Water restrictions are in effect, and the hills... the hills everywhere are burning.

Yesterday I spent the day with some friends at their house on a hill, and you could see the evidence of bush fires all around.

The hill behind their house shows a definite line of burnt vegetation next to green. They tell us this was a particularly scary fire. I can imagine that watching a fireline this wide creep closer to your house is indeed a scary thing. 


The hills a few miles away are similarly burnt, but it's so hard to see because of the haze of lingering smoke.


And the haze isn't just over the hills. It's over the entire city. In this view you can't see the horizon, and you can barely make out two of the islands offshore.


It didn't affect the festivities whatsoever, though. A good time was had by all into the night.


Way into the night.




This is part of Unknown Mami'Sundays in My City. Go visit her and travel the world to visit Sundays in other cities!



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Friday, April 2, 2010

No-fuss Video Slideshows - Animoto.com

I was trying to put together a little slideshow for a family member the other day, and came across this site: 


They take the photos you upload, the music you select or upload, and put them together with some cool video editing techniques to take the work out of it for you. So you can turn out something like this in under 10 minutes like I did.

Create your own video slideshow at animoto.com.

Free videos are limited to 30 seconds, but you can also use their paid service to do an entire DVD for download for just $5. Or you can go with the $30 annual PRO membership and have unlimited video done.

That's particularly useful if you're a budding photographer who can take a decent photo, but doesn't have the videography skills to turn out a full DVD for clients.

I am not associated with Animoto in any way. I just like their product and decided to share with you, just like someone shared it with me. :-) 

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Blog World Domination by Dumb Mom

Hello everyone, I am Dumb Mom (yes, THE Dumb Mom), and I’m here representing the bestes blog eva parenting BY dummies.

I have been an active member of the blogging community since December, 2008, which means I am coming up on my 18 month blog-a-versary.

I have experienced some success with my blog (you know stuff that matters like followers, traffic, comments, Google page rank), but nothing to really write home about (not that I have to since my mother stalks my blog shamelessly).

But, I haven’t gotten to the point where I feel accomplished or truly successful as a blogger (aka the point at which the money begins to roll in).

Don’t get me wrong, I don’t live in Crazy Blogger Delisuionalville so I know that I’m not likely to be the next Dooce (no PPD ravings here) or the next Pioneer Woman (no sexy cowboy hubby either), but you know, I kinda would like to be a respected member of the blogging community.

And, I’m sorta sick of waiting for my content to make it happen for me.

Plus, I don’t know anybody (‘cause you know, blogging, like real life, is a lot about who you know), at least not anybody who likes me wants to let me ride their coattails to the top support my “brand”.

So I came up with a new plan.

A plan to ensure blog-world domination in as little as 6 weeks.

A genius plan really.

To eliminate to competition and make people like me catapult me to the top.

Buying blogs!

That’s right people, B-U-Y-I-N-G them.

I figured that one of the main obstacles standing in the way of my become-a-popular-blogger-so-people-will-pay-me plan is that the market is becoming a bit saturated.

It’s getting too hard to have a blog.

Now you have to worry about annoyingly time consuming junk like personal branding, SEO, building a blog community, and other stuff I’ll let you know about when I figure out what it is.

And.  You need a niche.

A niche that is supported by good content.

I don’t have a niche (unless you call being a suckit mom who is strangely funny a niche), or time to think about my brand, or brains to master SEO.

So, I’m taking the easy way out…MONEY.

It may not be able to buy you love (which I’m not sure I agree with) but it can buy you blogs, because everyone needs it and most of us like it (which is more than I can say for my blog).

So the other night when I sat down to do my figuring, I figured that what I need to do is get some cash, find some in-the-market-for-some-cash bloggers, and give it to them to to go away let me be the creative director on their sites.

Basically they post about me and me related material and all is well.

And, guess what?!

It worked!

I’ve turned 12 of them so far!

So instead of reading about Mama B’s peanut butter life, or Angie’s Seven Clowns, or Jen’s Hipness, or KMama’s Daily Dribbles, or Marf Mom’s Marfan, or When SHE became her mom, or Being a former Fatty, or how HER Life Gone Awry, or Amy’s B Hole, or Supah’s Adventures, or Faemom’s Faeness?, or Chicken Nugget’s Wisdom, or even Sunday’s Extreme Parenthood, you get to read about moi.

Before they sign off for good for the duration of their written-in-blood contracts they have each written one last post for you here: parenting BY dummies.

I urge you to give them a chance to explain why they’ve sold you out to The Man (The Man being ME) succumbed to the Dumb.

Come on over and say adios to your beloved bloggers.  MWAHAHAHA!!!

P.S. I am currently not on the hunt for other blogs to dominate as I have run into a bit of an issue with my blog-world-domination budget plan.  #therecessionisruiningeverything

Monday, March 29, 2010

Monday's Muse: Wild World

Certain sounds, or sights will bring back memories so strong that I'll remember how I felt, how things smelt.... Almost as if I've literally been transported back to a different time.

When I was pregnant with my second boy, my husband got Dengue Fever and had to be admitted to hospital for days. His platelet count was very low and it was a really scary ordeal. I had my 2yr old son at home so I couldn't stay at the hospital, and with my extreme nausea and how hectic things got, I was grateful for "Playhouse Disney" to keep my little one occupied for small stretches. I'd park him there to watch Roly Poly Olie while I scrambled to get us out of the house so I could go check on his daddy at the hospital. To this DAY, seven years later, I can't hear the sound of that show, because it brings back the nausea and stress I felt back then.

Other sounds bring back different memories. Certain songs bring back vivid snapshots of a view from a balcony overlooking trees and grass blowing in the breeze, with some kind of sugar industry close by. Another song, an image of a dimly lit room where the sunlight outside barely came through the open doorway, lovely steps to someone else's apartment beckoning me to come and play outside in the sun and watch the palm trees dance.

Some songs are recurring. They hold possibilities of different portals - different moments in time connected by the same song. This is one of them.




This song takes me back to my childhood. My mother loved Cat Stevens. I loved him too. There is something so heartfelt in his music. Human emotion captured precisely and transposed into melody and chords. This part of my childhood is full of emotion. And it was followed by life-changing moves and much turmoil for years to come. I remember that one of the few lines I could understand and sing along with was "Don't be a bad girl" and I would sing it with conviction and promise as if to reassure my mother that I would indeed be a good girl.

She would be lost in thought. I imagine she was contemplating the Wild World out there, and thinking that she never imagined how Wild the World we ended up in would have been.

We would leave that Wild World behind and many years later, in my tumultuous teenage years, this song would make a comeback. The memories of this time are of myself debating my own choices and reminding myself that the World was not always a welcoming place. Logically, I knew about the wolves out there. But I knew I had no choice but to take that Wild World on the only way I could. With blind faith, a little luck, and friends by my side. Despite my mother's realized fears magnified now in the prospect of her girl child about the fly the nest. And even though it brought much distress to our relationship, I've never regretted that decision. It was the only one I could make.

But perhaps the most powerful memory that song is tied to is the period in time when I walked away from my first serious relationship. Despite the "he done me wrong" the decision was mine to stay or to leave. To choose to try to heal and mend certainly, but under what terms... I chose my terms. I wanted out, because I knew I deserved more. And after years of trying to show that love was enough, I stood up and took the opposite position... That sometimes it just wasn't....

Because our relationship changed on that day that I demanded and took my respect, and because we have remained friends to this day, I know that he felt the words of this song. And I sang it to myself over and over in my head. With conviction. Understanding the words in a way I never could have at 16. And I sang it for myself, to myself, creating a bittersweet memory I hope I never forget.



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Sunday, March 28, 2010

Sundays in My City - Chaguaramas Military Museum

It's been a while since my last SIMC post, but I'm back in a big way (I think!)

There's so much history around us that we Trinis take for granted, myself included. It's often not that we're not interested in finding out more about our history and culture, but that it takes time to find the places to go and the people who know the stories to tell.

That's part of the reason I joined Macaroni Kid, and I have been trying to highlight interesting family-friendly sights and sites here in Trinidad & Tobago. This week I was invited to tour the Chaguaramas Military Museum and had the honour of being accompanied by their resident Researcher Mr. Jerome Lee.

Museum in Chaguaramas Bay

You know, we do the required history classes in school, but I never realized how significant our contribution to military affairs on a global scale have been. We are a small island nation with deep harbours (or deep-enough at any rate) as well as shallow bays, complete with tropical jungle and the native wildlife that make their home there. Rich with oil, pitch and safe harbour just south of the hurricanes that largely spare this region 10 degrees north of the Equator.

No wonder the empires of Europe and 19th century America had such interest in us.
Replica of European Castle entrance,
complete with drawbridge, parapet and "kill holes"
where boiling oil was poured on would-be invaders

Back when the Conquest for the New World raged between the empires of Europe, the seas were ruled by these...


The first fascinating thing I learnt was that, despite our textbooks, Columbus didn't sail into our harbours on the "Nina, Pinta and Santa Maria". That was his first trip. We were "discovered" on his third. Different trip, different ships. Don't ask me the names!

I also didn't know that we had real live famous pirates here! Like Blackbeard. This far south they raided mostly for supplies. Not gold and spices like elsewhere on the Spanish Main. Anne Bonny did spend some time here. She would look out from the hill at Fort George, overlooking the harbour of Port of Spain (now the capital).

Chain shot like this would likely have brought down many a cargo-laden ship. These cannon-balls were discovered right here in our waters. They were meant to bring down a ship's mast, without which it couldn't steer, and couldn't position itself to return fire. Dead in the water.

Chain shot - cannonballs chained together 
flew apart after being shot out of a cannon
and would wrap around a ship's mast, crippling it 

There were exhibits dedicated to the World Wars I & II and the local servicemen who enlisted and were deployed both in the Caribbean and throughout Europe - trenches (with sound effects) demonstrating how these brave men lived and died.

There really is so much to talk about that it would take several posts, but there was one thing that made me particularly proud.

The Macqueripe Missile Tracking Station
PROJECT TRINIDAD

During the height of the Cold War, tensions were high between the USA and Russia. The threat of catastrophic Inter-Continental Ballistic Missiles was very real, and the USA's main strategy for defense was Mutually Assured Destruction. The rationale was that if the Russians hit the US, that they'd be hit in exchange, and that essentially it would be suicidal for Russia to attack first.

Enter the need for the Ballistic Missile Early Warning System. Major major technological advancement for the time. To test the technology, the US used land that they had leased from the Trinidad and Tobago government (displacing my family, and many others, but that's another chapter in local history). The tests were successful and the radar network became operational in the 1960s.



On August 8th, 1960, another first.

The first intercontinental voice message relayed via satellite was transmitted from the Missile Tracking Station at Macqueripe, Trinidad and received at Floyd Air Force base, New York.

The very first.

The pre-cursor technology that led to cell phones, the internet, satellite radio, GPS. It all started right here, in Trinidad.



This is part of Unknown Mami'Sundays in My City. Go visit her and travel the world to visit Sundays in other cities!



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Friday, March 26, 2010

Easter Weekend Getaway

My kids are on vacation this week - Easter holidays. We have grand plans of taking everyone turtle watching at the beach. I really hope that happens because this is the perfect time of the year for it.

The endangered leatherback turtle nests here, and returns to the same nesting grounds where it was hatched to lay its own eggs each year. These massive reptiles are hunted for their meat, which I hate. Aside from the tragedy of the dwindling numbers... well... it's only the female turtles that get hunted, because they're the ones coming to nest!

Anyway, we're going to try to make that trip in the coming weeks.

If the boys are very good I will take them to see the movie they've been clamouring to see - How to Train Your Dragon.

The reviews so far are pretty good, and I'm glad for a return of good family-friendly movies that I can safely take the kids to see. (The last movie I took them to see was Transformers where Ms Megan Fox was all but posed up for Playboy. No offense - she's gorgeous - but not what I was expecting taking my 6 and 8 year olds...)

I've included the synopsis of the movie, followed by the new trailer for the movie, below. What will you be doing Easter weekend?

From the studio that brought you “Shrek,” “Madagascar” and “Kung Fu Panda” comes “How to Train Your Dragon.” Set in the mythical world of burly Vikings and wild dragons, and based on the book by Cressida Cowell, the action comedy tells the story of Hiccup, a Viking teenager who doesn’t exactly fit in with his tribe’s longstanding tradition of heroic dragon slayers. Hiccup’s world is turned upside down when he encounters a dragon that challenges him and his fellow Vikings to see the world from an entirely different point of view.

DreamWorks Animation's “How to Train Your Dragon” was produced by Bonnie Arnold and directed by Chris Sanders and Dean DeBlois. Rated PG.



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Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Permission to be the Brand

I have long been lamenting the dwindling interest in historical sites and events in my area. Places that hold memories of my childhood where I was in wonder at this world around me. Places that this new generation is missing, stuck behind a Wii or TV.

How to reach out and get them out there? Somebody has to do something. What can I do? Ideas were "bandied" about and, there being strength in numbers, an idea for a group project formed fuzzily. No definite plans made, it remained a hazy possibility.

Then I heard about a group of moms who make it their business to know about all the family-friendly happenings in their locale, and who publish a weekly e-newsletter "designed to entertain, stimulate and exhaust your kids". Macaroni Kid provides the entire infrastructure - from website, publishing tools & fantastic tech support, to a media kit & marketing materials. It helped me to know that there was an active group of fellow Macaroni Kid moms who share ideas and resources, some of whom I already knew from the world of blogging.

Perfect! After a few weeks of hearing about it, and reading the BNET.com article on MK, I took the plunge and joined up.

I hate cold-calling
For my business, I have to call people to try to establish new relationships, and find new markets. Sometimes I get to talk to people I already know. Sometimes it's a totally cold call. I hate it. If you approach me looking to match a need with a solution - I can help. We can chat for hours. To approach you and tell you that I have the solution to the problem I know you've been facing..... Yeh not so much.

Branding
I would have never been brave enough to approach these companies on my own, without MK's advice. Would not have thought about getting on lists to be the first to know about new activities or special events. Nor would my communication have been so clear. I knew I could work really hard on getting the newsletter and tracking down events but I would never have considered myself important enough to initiate contact with anyone more senior than a counter clerk or supervisor. Labour intensive and grassroots would have been my approach.

I tailored and adjusted MK's communication templates so that they reflected my voice, my concerns, my mission, but when I sent out my emails and made my calls, I did so on behalf of the wider group. I couldn't just do it for me. It wasn't enough that I was passionate about what I was doing and justified in requesting information. It was as though I needed permission... to be me! Or rather permission to be Me, the Brand.

Becoming a Brand
After pouring my Self into the emails and telephone scripts, personalized to each target, it was so much easier to present when I could step back and say that I was backed by this larger thing. Larger than lil ole me. MK gave me permission to Be the Brand.

At the SITS Girls' Bloggy Boot Camp, Heather and Tiffany hold talks on exactly this - Becoming a Brand. I think for most of us who use our blogs as our online journals, it's hard for us to think of our "followers" as fans. We think of them rather as friends. At least that's the way it is for me.

It’s sort of like being a teenager now starting out, trying to establish yourself and build a sense of confidence that you are in fact your own person. How do you translate the self-confidence you have inside into external credibility?

Building the brand is all about figuring out what you will stand for, and committing yourself to a quality blog, even if no money comes out of it. Most mom-bloggers aren't in it for the money (in my experience). Most are in it for the community, and if there's a way to bring something in to the family by way of product or advertising dollars that's a plus. For these people the product that they bring in will be a part of their homes - not something they want to harm their families. It’s the perfect target for marketers.

Embracing the Brand
Former e.l.f. cosmetics CMO Ted Rubin knows firsthand about embracing the blogging community. e.l.f. doesn’t use traditional marketing methods. You won’t see them in magazines or billboards. They save that marketing budget and keep their overheads low, passing on those savings to the consumer and delivering high-quality cosmetics at a much lower cost than their competitors (or a much higher quality than their price-point competitors – depending on your perspective). Ted was instrumental in maintaining those online relationships and building e.l.f.’s user base using social media and the power of referral relationships.

Ted is now on the Board of Advisors for The Opensky Project – an initiative seeking to provide “Relationship Commerce for Everyone”. The idea is to bring together Sellers, Suppliers and Shoppers in one place where there is dialog. It’s a new idea, and I’m curious to see how it works out. But with Ted as an advisor, I’m sure great things will come out of this.

The grapevine has been around as long as there has been “society”, and has just found its new form of expression in social media. Taking it one step further, consider “girl talk”. Turn on the television or open a magazine and look at how many companies selling products to women show their product being discussed over “girl talk”. In this model, marketers want you to believe that their product is special enough to occupy that space. They try to spark exactly what their ads depict. They know that “girl talk” is a marketers dream. It's where you want your product to be.

When that translates into the social media world, “Mom Blogs” are the place to be. We are women, and mothers, and sisters and daughters. We talk, we debate, we share.

Evolution of Social Media
Unfortunately there does seem to be an upsurge in “Mom Bloggers” looking solely to score "free" goods. Charging in blindly, they overlook the delicate social rules of community, in search only of increased numbers of followers as a means of obtaining the Almighty Freebie. As irksome as they are to the rest of the blogging community, we know that the rate of attrition is very high. The cookie-cutter Freebie-only model is not sustainable and few bloggers of this nature stick around. They’re like advertising-only channels - very few of them will stand out. Blogging is takes time and commitment and the ones who are able to successfully market the products of others usually have a clear vision of how they are perceived and they know their own value. They understand that they are their own Brand.

Marketers who throw a shot in the dark and seek out just any blogger will inevitably end up missing the mark, and after enough product is essentially wasted on people simply looking for freebies, they will be forced to reign in their social media budgets and rethink their strategy. My prediction is that over time this will all level out and there will be a more managed approach to understanding and seeking value for money, as new means of measuring blogger "value" emerge.

As a matter of fact, it makes sense that these means of determining blogger media value will come from the very people who understand it best. Look to marketing companies who specialize in social media working in conjunction with groups such as the SITS Girls, Macaroni Kid and Opensky who have all committed themselves to exploring ways to add value to by leveraging relationship-based marketing taken to a whole new level via social media tools such as Blogging, Twitter and Facebook.

The fact is that until Corporate America begins to really commit to understanding and appreciating the value of Branding via the "new" social media in a more meaningful way, it seems doomed to throwing darts at its targets blindfolded - a shot in the dark with no clear success strategy.

For companies that dabble, or ignore social media altogether, maybe Heather and Tiffany's Bloggy Boot Camp and Ted Rubin/Opensky’s conferences are exactly where you want to be.

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